March 22, 2015

Coalition for the Homeless: Day 1



Today we started our day around 8:20 when we walked down to the Montrose stop of the brown line to begin our journey to Chicago’s Coalition for the Homeless. Surprisingly, we made it there without getting lost or losing anyone. At the Coalition, we met with a couple of representatives of the Speaker’s Bureau who sat down and told us their story of how they got involved with the Coalition. First, we spoke with Sonovia. Sonovia told us her story of how she was once incarcerated, but found hope and support in the Coalition after she left the system. She spoke to us about how mental illness really affects many homeless people and gave us advice on how we could personally help.  She urged us to look past the stigma of homelessness, and get to know the person. She said that a simple, “Hello, how are you”, could go a long way. Then we spoke with Kendra, who told us her riches to rags story of how she ended up homeless. I liked her story because it was so different from Sonovia’s story. It really showed how many different people can be affected by homelessness. Kendra spoke about how the Chicago school system was a hindrance to the success of her children. She told us her story of how difficult the school system was after she became homeless. This was the foundation for our outreach today. Lastly, we spoke to Julie about her battle with raising children at a young age. She spoke about her challenges with the Chicago hospitals and moving house to house with small children. Julie also suffers from Multiple Sclerosis and she told us about how that affected her throughout her journey. Today was a great start to my alternative break experience and I’m excited for what tomorrow has to offer.

            “If you haven’t met the devil at some point on the road, you were probably right there walking by his side.” One of our speakers today, Kendra, was a mortician, but she lost her job after being injured. This quote was something her grandmother had told her when she said she thought she could not make it through anymore. She told us about her experience with plummeting from being able to provide for herself more than well as a mortician, to hurting her back and being cast out on her own. She emphasized the fact that she knew where government programs were, but she was not able to benefit from them because they would not provide services to someone with a car or a small amount of money in her bank account. Out of desperation, she ended up moving back in with the father of her child. She expected it to work out well, but one night he to strangle her. She could not rely on the police because he was a sheriff in the town. However, she ended up filing a restraining order and winning. Now her children are in school and she is working with Chicago’s Coalition for the Homeless and community outreach.
            Stories such as this show me that the stereotype of what a “homeless” person is unwarranted, and the stigma is without ground. It is frightening that we create an “us and them” situation with the homeless; it boxes them out and makes them seem less than human. Often, it really is impossible to just pull yourself up from your bootstraps and you need assistance. It is hard to do so when they are looked at as a group and not as individuals such as Kendra. There was an overwhelming feeling of power and resilience emanating from all three speakers. These are two words not often associated with homelessness.

            After hearing the personal stories, we split into two groups. Both groups handed out flyers in different parts of Chicago, and my group was in front of the Department of Human Services. On the front, the flyers said “Need Help With Public School Fees?” and detailed the rights of families/students on the inside. They had the contact information of Chicago’s Coalition for the Homeless on the back so that individuals would have a place to call if they needed more information. I think that people were pretty receptive overall, and it was worth our time if even one family was able to keep their child in school after learning about their rights. However, I saw how much remains to be done.  The three speakers we had worked so hard to get where they got to, I almost feel like we owe it to people like this to use our own privilege in order to make our system more receptive of those who can not afford their own homes.

Raye & Shalom 

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